My Fucking 40’s – The Origin

The idea for “My Fucking 40s” came from a conversation I was having with my husband. We were talking about how most people our age (in our 40s obviously) complain about not having a lot of sex. Either they don’t have time, they just don’t have the desire for it anymore, or their kids get in the way of spending sexy time with their honey. This lack of sex leads them to label this time in our lives in a negative way – their fucking forties.

It’s sad really. I can’t imagine not taking the time to spend quality intimate time with my spouse. It’s not just about sex, it’s about connecting with each other on that most personal level. There’s really no excuse for neglecting your partner. Sure, there are days when one of us (oh, who am I kidding…it’s most always me) doesn’t feel like having sex. Some old fashioned naked cuddle time is enough on these days. Hell, sometimes it leads to the not so innocent type of cuddling!

My friends think I’m the weird one for having sex so much more than them.  I’ve actually been made fun of for it, can you believe that?  Who makes fun of the person having all the sex?  My life is no different from their lives.  I am raising two almost teenagers, my elderly parents live on our property, I am teacher / coordinator for my kids online schooling, and my spouse has a high stress job that sometimes spills over into our time. I would even say that my days are a little more difficult and stressful than most of the people I know.

The difference lies in the fact that I don’t let everything else that happens during the day influence my relationship with my husband and neither does he.  We make an extra effort to love each other, physically.  Partly because he’s amazing…some of my friends are married to real assholes, so I don’t really blame them for wanting to stay as far away from them as possible.

We realized that we are actually having a lot more sex than all of our peers.  I would even classify it as better sex than we were having in our 20s.  Because of this, we consider our age range to be our fucking forties, as in “Hell yeah, we’re fucking more than ever” and not “Oh shit, being forty sucks.”

One thought on “My Fucking 40’s – The Origin”

  1. Yea, I’m same age and it is better than our early years of maariage. It is amazing though not well recognized. To have more intense sex with the same partner at 40s. Greetings

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